Two Dominants, One Key - Who Do You Choose?

Cage (obviously). If you’ve ever opened a Lock the Cock email you’ll already have heard all about how much I love to see slaves locked up. My personal favorite is a nice open metal cage like the Put a Ring On It. Firm metal to keep them in place, but plenty of space for me to have my wicked way with them.

I doubt you’ll be surprised that I want my men caged as well. But I approach things a little differently. The cage removes their penis, they won’t be needing it anymore. Instead, we’ll be having fun in… other ways. A great example is The Pink Cobra. Cute, tiny, and utterly humiliating. Just what I love.

It’s no fun if you never unlock them! Taking the cage off gets their hopes up, thinking that they’re going to get what they've been craving then “Oops!”, Ruined, denied, frustrated. That’s so much more powerful than absolute denial.

Submitting to me is a commitment, and I don’t take it lightly. Once we agree you’re locked, you’re locked. Simple as that.

Hmmm. That’s an interesting one. There are certainly some slaves I’d trust to be left alone, and others who I’d be keeping a close eye on. I think my approach might change from slave to slave, but my expectations would remain the same.

I’m a very hands on dominant. ;) Once they’re mine, they’re mine, and I’m free to do with them as I wish. Why wouldn’t I take advantage of that right?

Rules of course! Slaves need rules. They don’t need rewards (but they can earn them occasionally with good behavior).

For once, Tracy and I agree. Rewards are nice (and I give myself to the most worthy men in my collection), but a clear set of rules makes sure everyone knows what’s on the table. We lay it out at the beginning and I expect you to follow. If you don’t, then you accept the consequences…

Honestly? I’d have to say neither. My submissives aren’t there to be fawned over like a little pet. They’re there for my amusement. Rather than encouragement or temptation, I find humiliation to be a much more powerful tool. Making sure each man knows that his place is beneath me, to serve my needs, keeps them in line, and the thrill of not knowing what I’ll do next is what keeps them coming back night after night.

I, uh, don’t really know! If you were to ask me about a specific submissive, I’d be able to tell you exactly which I’d go for, but to make it such a general question… it’s tough. Personally, I love temptation. The feeling of having total control while they’re a messy puddle of desire and want is absolutely thrilling. But, it doesn’t always work. And an important part of being a good dominant is being able separate what “I want” from what works for each submissive. So I guess, yeah, my answer is neither too… or both!

Attention, definitely. Setting up the environment where a slave is begging for even the slightest sultry glance, or brief touch puts you in a powerful position. Then it’s simply a matter of giving them what they want when they behave, and taking it away when they don’t! You’d be surprised how quickly behavior changes when they’re completely ignored.

I do provide my submissives some access, but not because they’re behaving. That’s giving them more power than they deserve. They gain access when I want them to have it, and they get my attention when I decide they’re worthy of it. What they prefer isn’t relevant.

I prefer to correct mistakes, but not simply by showing them what they did wrong. Once again it leans into my preference to turn them into my plaything. If they spill something, they lick it up. If they forget something, they’re sent to get it wearing the frilliest outfit I can find for them. Those humiliating memories stick with them far more than simply saying “do it this way next time”.

I’d say denial, but only when it’s done right. They need some kind of carrot to chase (and it’s usually their cocks), and throwing the carrot further down the field when they screw up makes them all that more desperate to get it. So denial is very powerful.

I’ve never been one for sitting in front of the TV. I’d much rather a book on the balcony, while my devoted slave brings me glass after glass of dry red.

I put a new meaning into “Netflix and Chill”.

Free and fun. You miss out on a lot if every step is always planned in advance. Some of my best memories have come from simply following the thread of the evening and seeing where it takes us…

And that’s where I’m the complete opposite.